So I know chances are really good that you arrived at this site with one of these questions burning in your mind:
👉 How can I get over my ex?
👉 Why is dating SO hard?
👉 Why do I keep attracting LOSERS?
👉 How do I know if I should stay in my relationship?
It’s not an easy place to be. I remember that.
There’s a reason you’re uncomfortable where you are right now.
A part of you knows you can’t STAY stuck in this rut.
It’s so far from what you want and deserve.
That means you’re ready to make a move.
Even if it’s scary.
Or you’re not sure what move you’re making.
My job is to help you:
👍 Get right with yourself first
👍 Find your own right answers
👍 Get clear about WHAT you want and WHY
👍 Create a plan to reach your goals
👍 Feel confident making your own choices
My job is NOT to:
👎 Force you to do things that aren’t right for you
👎 Make your life choices for you
👎 Provide couples counseling (this is about empowering you, boo)
👎 Be the therapist who heals your unresolved trauma (I recommend completing any needed therapy before beginning a program with me)
If this sounds good and you’re thinking “Melissa might be exactly the coach I need to help me finally change things around,” then let’s have a chat.
I reached a point in my life where I had so much going for me - I owned my own home, my career was on track, I had wonderful friends and I was #adulting. But my romantic life up until this point was a shit show.
I kept having relationships (and situationships) with men who had potential but would never be right for me. They were emotionally unavailable, had narcissistic tendencies, were dishonest or just weren’t nice people.
It didn’t make sense.
I was smart, successful and a genuinely good person, so why did it seem like things were working out for everyone but me?
I didn’t know what to do but I knew I couldn’t keep doing this.
I realized I had become dependent on men and relationships to make me feel worthy and that was not who I wanted to be.
So I started a journey.
Through therapy, coaching, and a “man-free-year” I discovered how to be my own best friend. I stopped feeling like a victim. I also learned how to give myself the feelings of love, validation, and worthiness I craved.
As I began to share what I’d learned with the women around me, I realized that I wasn’t alone - SO many women were having the same struggles I was!
I knew then exactly what I was put on this planet to do.
I became a Certified Love and Life Coach and devoted my life to helping smart, successful women just like you finally have the love they want and deserve!
Bonus: I now have a husband who loves and appreciates me, too.